so.
It's 3:45pm and I'm like “hey, WHERE are we meeting tomorrow?"
Dude: "we should meet at X."
Me: 'k
Dude: "And on second thought, we should meet at 11:30am instead, because we're gonna see if the Vietnamese place has seats, and if not, we're gonna do Plan B Italian".

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Y'all. I'm genuinely not sure how dating is supposed to work, but if this is it, I really don't like it and I'm gonna resign myself to being single until my fated mate falls on my head while I'm sitting in my bedroom. Like, how rude is it to cancel versus showing this grumpy?
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All of my relatives: YOU HAVE TO GO, IT'D BE SUPER RUDE NOT TO AFTER EVERYONE CLEARED THEIR SCHEDULE TO DO THIS FOR YOU. AND YOU GOTTA GIVE DUDE A CHANCE. YOU CAN'T JUST CROSS HIM OUT WITHOUT EVEN MEETING HIM. Me: ...dude, I think you underestimate how grumpy I am at this point
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I mean, is it really not giving people a chance if almost every single aspect about how they're arranging this outing, let's not call it a date, is making me super grumpy AF?
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...turns out, dude hasn't even tried this restaurant. And he's joking about using us as lab rats to test a new place and saying it'd be a good excuse to have another meal out together, and I'm...
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @KatjeXia
Obv cultural differences and all that, but in the US the appropriate response would be to gather all your female friends, gossip about him, and then ghost him.
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @hawleydp
Ghosting seems horrifically rude, but I'm tempted.
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @KatjeXia
Ghosting is, in my circles at least, acceptable when the person would be likely to overreact. Again, YMMV.
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Ah, the "for your safety ghosting". Gotcha. Nah, dude seems amiable enough, from the little talking we've done. Just ...not considerate in the ways I prefer.
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @KatjeXia
Gotcha. Given it’s your family that recommended him, I’m sure you can understand why I was worried he might flip out lol
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........ I wish I could say you didn't have a point.pic.twitter.com/Rb4zvWSOud
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