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So, the month I filed to divorce my ex is also when I met @PDillatheGreat & sure you could claim that was about getting back at my ex.

But I put him out, had the locks changed & filed for divorce. Emotionally I was done, & really just going through the clean up stage

Now my ex might have convinced himself that my new relationship was about making him mad, but honestly I wasn't thinking about him.

He was the one dating broads who dyed their hair & cut it to look like mine & still calling me his wife for years after the divorce.

Meanwhile I had a brief flirtation with another guy early on in dating @PDillatheGreat & then I got invested in my new relationship.

We fussed & fought, but none of it was about my ex. It was our shit we were working out. And you know...16 years later we're still together

We have raised kids, moved, taken pics, gone on trips...literally this whole family thing we do is about us. That's how life works.

That sincere lack of respect for Black women is why you'll never be anyone's blessing.

...this isn't even mean for you but I still say MA'AM

I believe in facts

"never be anyone's blessing" hurt *my* feelings by proxy. Mother of god.

That was some of my kindest work!

I do agree with that. That was down right sweet as far as insults to someone's *entire being* go.

Now I'm asking the timeline. I thought I was being polite

it shows the fragility of the male ego: how DARE she go on and be happy...WITHOUT ME? What kinda isht is that?

They truly are the most delicate flowers.