Nerd activities weren't all that great before the invasion of pronoun people. Go to, say, a board game convention even years ago there would generally be multiple Poindexters snubbing you or being hostile for no good reason. What should be a fun pastime isn't. Why?https://twitter.com/BeigeShiba/status/1223713695877849088 …
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Switch to a physical activity where "Chads" and pretty girls participate, and suddenly everything is different. Common courtesy emerges as you master the basics. People notice when you do something awesome and celebrate it. Achieve intermediate ability and you are accepted.
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Contrast that with how nerds tend to behave. Do something objectively awesome in their scene and they are loathe to acknowledge it. Getting better at the activity doesn't generate acceptance. It creates resentment. It's completely perverse.
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Meanwhile "Chad" is genuinely happy for you if you manage to push through something just above your skill level on grit and determination alone. If you know something he doesn't, he has no problem showing appreciation to you for it if he was interested. Chad is cool!
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How do you get to the place where Chad is happy to give you a hand up? That's easy. Don't resent him for his high level of achievement. Do your best, but accept your position in the social hierarchy even as you take what steps you can in order to improve it.
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Nerdland is simply the place where slothful people go that are unwilling to do even that simple thing. Over time, their vices make them increasingly odious. And if any of their peers manage to escape, it reflects badly on them. So they behave pretty much like a crab bucket!
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Those that have chosen nerd or geek as an identity have chosen a very tough row to hoe. Reality serves them crap sandwiches every single day and they think this is natural or inevitable even when they can change it. They are pitiable even though they incite their ill-treatment.
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There is a lot of bogus talk on the internet these days asserting that girls only like the top 10% of "alphas" so average guys don't even need to bother trying to get in the game. That's a bunch of baloney. The people pushing that are scamming you. Don't listen to them.
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If you are below average because you've let yourself go. If you've been a nerd your whole life, but you commit to improving everything you can so that you cross that line into above average... so much good stuff is in store for you.
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Okay, maybe you won't have to beat the women off with a stick like I do. But as you systematically replace your "repulsors" with "attractors", the world will respond, creating all the incentive you need to keep on improving. It's an objectively better way to live your life.
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I only date nerds D; fake news
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