all this talk of incels got me like...https://twitter.com/JoeyFrances/status/899963534288834560 …
but there's something that all the (good & important) critiques of the incel thing as based entirely on misogyny & entitlement to women's bodies, & some weird idea about a duty to not leave someone unshagged, often miss
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which is to do with how the premise that sex is something so super important which these people wanna do murders if they don't get - because sexual relationships are seen within even fairly non-murdery patriarchal mindsets as an exclusive conduit for all sorts of needs
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if these men would let themselves fucking hug each other, or allow themselves to make multifaceted emotional connections with people of all genders where they attended to one another's needs, then they'd just be a bit sad for a lack of a shag, which honestly isn't that bad
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