Bro was making reservations for Chinese New Year reunion dinner. Him to mum: The place is fully booked now. I told you about it before CNY, why didn't you schedule a day early on?! Me: If it's full, why don't we eat someplace else? Him: Are you treating, or am I treating?
These kind of people would still behave like that even if they don't do you a favour. Rather the favour may be a way to legitimise abuse lol. If you don't know yourself well, you may be sucked into it while thinking it's your fault and you deserve it.