Watson

I'd also love to see more transparent data because I know the TERF myths are destructive. But until we can trust the cis to conduct themselves fairly, I will continue to urge extreme care. We are simply not here to placat those that would see us killed off over lies.

And yes, so-called detrans experiences are valid. And yes, people transition for many reasons and some reasons are awful. And yes, I know people who elected not to pursue a transition or follow up on it. But you and I both know the perl-clutching is about something else entirely.

It's difficult to believe what you're saying when your choice of words regarding detransitioners is "so called" detrans experiences. My experiance isn't "so called" it just is.

Your experience is valid and real. So-called "detrans" in contrast to desisting transition. Evidence Inhave seen first hand is that too many people who stop living a trans experience do so because of society more than because of their identity.

I do not question *why* you changed your mindset. Only you can know that.

Here's my question to uou: How can I as a trans rights activist protect my own while making more space for your experience - without feeding the monster of societal transphobic oppression? This is something I struggle with.

*you.

If you have ideas that you are interested in sharing with me, or if you have a cohort willing to meet with me in safety, I would be honoured to make that happen. This is not the first time I have tried to reach out. Sadly it never goes anywhere.