My family and I refer to Séan (my name while I was trans) as if he's a separate person. My sister might say “Séan was so angry,” or I'll say “Séan had my back.” If someone's unaware I was Séan and asks who he is, I say “Oh, I was Séan,” and I realize how fucking nuts it sounds.
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Replying to @ImWatson91
When I was first transitioning a family member introduced me to their trans dude friend, i think in an attempt to show me how different he was from me. (Totally backfired.) The GF of the trans guy started talking about “Jen:” jen was like this, jen was like that. 1/2
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I finally said “wait who’s jen?” She was talking about the trans guy but before he transitioned. It was so very strange. I don’t even have an observation besides how awkward it was. 2/2
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Yeah, I only realized how strange it was when my sisters neighbor asked who Séan was and it was awkward. Stuck in my ways now, though.
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Replying to @ImWatson91 @CareyCallsBS
It has to be OK, though, doesn't it? To actually admit how awkward, difficult, and unusual all this is. It isn't the cobbled together coping methods that are "crazy", is it?
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