I began detransition 14 months ago At the time I was so afraid of never passing as my sex again that I overcompensated with make up, a wig, feminine clothes etc But thats not me. 14 months on, I present how I'm comfortable - "masculine" I still get "sir'd" and that's fine 1/x
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I'm comfortable being who I am I'm a woman with stubble and mastectomy scars and a deep voice etc. But I'm happy because that's me. Would I undo my transition if I could? In a heartbeat. But I *can't* change what's already happened. So I learned to love the new me 2/x
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It wasn't easy. Between the self hatred & resentment directed towards the professionals who facilitited my transition, I was a mess for a long time I should have taken some time for myself *long* before I actually did. If you're starting detransion, get off Twitter. Now. 3/x
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Why do you have resentment towards people who helped you? If you get a boob job now, will you then resent the doctors who do that? If you move house & then realise your old place was better, will you get angry at the movers & at the real estate agency that found your new place?
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I had those resememts and am working through them now. At the time, I feel like due to my obvious issues (gender clinic had access to my GP history), I was *clearly* not fit to be make long term/permenant decisions These days, I accept they did their best. And I'll live with it
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