I love my mum and I know she loves me but we don't discuss my detransition. I think it's hard for her because she didn't object when she knew transition wasn't for me. Today she visited unannounced to gift me a plant. Her way of checking in without asking difficult questions.
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At that time, she probably felt damned if she did and damned if she didn't. She chose to show you she would love you no matter what you decided. Me? I'm the opposite. I'd have fought you tooth and nail and prob locked you up to stop you if I thought I could mange it.
She wanted what was best for me, she'd watched me break down multiple times. When I told her I KNEW transition would finally fix me, I think she wanted to believe it because she wanted me to be happy. Deep down she knew I was wrong, but she thought it'd be kinder to support me.
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Someone I am close to is going through the same thing. Her daughter has so many other things going on, this transitioning thing is from left field. She already has some of the permanent damage from what I understand, and is thinking about going further :(
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My thoughts to all involved, it's such a sad situation, it just leaves you feeling helpless. I really do hope things work out.
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