I love my mum and I know she loves me but we don't discuss my detransition. I think it's hard for her because she didn't object when she knew transition wasn't for me. Today she visited unannounced to gift me a plant. Her way of checking in without asking difficult questions.
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for clarity: she had initially supported transitioning?
In her mind she knew I was making a mistake but she supported my decision with words to the effect of "do what you have to do."
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Do you think you would have paid any heed if she had been more opposed? My mam tried to stop me making a huge mistake, but I couldn't hear her warnings as anything other than something against me that I could stick my heels in about.
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I honestly can't say, by I'm leaning towards no, I probably would have ignored her and may even have distanced myself from her out of spite. I was a resentful, angry bam back then, which she realised.
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