Such heartbreaking replies. So many who feel they didn’t push back enough. I’ve never stepped back and considered the pain my family must've felt watching me make such an obvious mistake. If nothing else I thank you for putting into perspective how they must have felt back then.
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Replying to @ImWatson91
It's hard because you love the person dearly and you don't know how to get through to them. You don't want to hurt them and you don't want to lose them and you don't want to make it impossible for them to come back to you in the future.
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Replying to @elizamondegreen
This is where the mental health professionals should be stepping in to help – by helping the dysphoric individual come to terms with and, eventually, love and accept themselves as they are. unfortunately, the doctors are failing us.
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Replying to @ImWatson91 @elizamondegreen
I admit I haven't voiced my concerns to my niece. I'm not applauding her, but I'm not bold enough to talk to her. She posts threatening messages on FB saying that anyone who doesn't use the correct pronouns will be cut off. I've talked to my sister (her mom); that was hard enough
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Replying to @LisaMacRichards @elizamondegreen
It's not an easy conversation to have. Especially if she's far gone enough to be posting threats of disownment on Facebook. If I may, how old is she?
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Replying to @LisaMacRichards @elizamondegreen
She’s old enough for HRT, then. I wish you, your sister and your niece all the best. Hopefully, she won’t come to regret and detransition.
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Replying to @ImWatson91 @elizamondegreen
Yes, she has been on T for the past year. She's a great person with so much life in store. I'm concerned for her health, both physically and mentally, even if she never regrets transitioning.
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Replying to @LisaMacRichards @elizamondegreen
Please check the clinic has informed about atrophy. I assume a mastectomy is first on the list but if intending to be on T permanently, a hysterectomy within the first 5 years is a must– and look into creams. I was never told about that but that was some years ago.
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Replying to @ImWatson91 @elizamondegreen
Thanks. Do you mean vaginal creams? I'm pretty sure that she hasn't been given enough info. The doctor prescribing is an ER doctor who does this on the side, because he has TWO trans kids. Maybe I could pass on this info, saying I talked to someone who has experienced this.
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Tell her, in females, testosterone atrophies the reproductive system. Look up Buck Angel (transman), his uterus and cervix fused together, he became septic and nearly died. Oestrogen cream can help this, but a hysterectomy will eventually be needed.
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Replying to @ImWatson91 @elizamondegreen
Unfortunately I think she would be completely fine with getting a hysterectomy. I'm afraid if I tell her this, she will be more in a rush to get it done.
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Replying to @LisaMacRichards @elizamondegreen
I know this may not be of much consolation but detransition is always an option. Even if she goes the whole 9 yards and regrets it, she can always return to living as a woman. Just make sure she has a safe transition, or as “safe” as is possible.
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