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30yo detransitioner ftmtf, Lesbian

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    1. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

      A 🧵: So, I "peaked" my therapist this week. That post got a lot of likes. Cool. But I want to explain a bit further because I feel the urge to make an important distinction. Detransitioners generally have 2 options with therapy:

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    2. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

      We can keep quiet about our trans past. Or, we can put ourselves in an incredibly vulnerable place by explaining to our therapist what we experienced. The 1st option forces us to segregate a lot of trauma and hide a large part of ourselves. The 2nd option, opens us up to conflict

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    3. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

      I originally chose my therapist because she is versed in people who live with psychosis and early childhood trauma. I didn't know until recently that she also specialized in LGBT-centered therapy. When I saw this, it actually worried me.

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      Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

      I've had LGBT therapists since I detransitioned who pressured me a lot to re-transition or, at least, identify as nonbinary. Knowing that my current therapist might do this to me if she found out I'm a detransitioner made me anxious because I don't want to be pressured again.

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        2. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          I'm moving soon, so my relationship with this therapist is coming to an end. After thinking a lot about it, I decided that I deserve the right to talk about this thing that has really thrown my mental health for a loop.

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        3. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          The conversation came up naturally, after talking about my orientation and how I've struggled with that. Then, I got into the "why" of how my orientation has been hard for me to come to terms with because of my upbringing and because I was navigated towards transition,

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        4. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          as opposed to accepting and loving myself as a lesbian. And, even more so, being able to embrace myself as a more masculine woman (something I'm only now starting to be able to do).

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        5. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          Okay, so, back to the point- I became a little angry that I've had so much pressure from therapists when I want to talk about my trans history and how I live now, and all of the difficulties that come with it. I felt like it was a disservice for me to not be able to talk

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        6. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          about these things in my private therapy sessions. That's why I broke open. She was very kind and receptive. Her being a masculine lesbian helped a lot in her understanding me, I think. She did ask me why I don't ID as nb, though, which I gently addressed.

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        7. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          Yes, I "peaked" her. But, I also think that it's difficult to have a genuine relationship with someone if you're too focused on changing their mind. I understand that it can be frustrating to have these things you're so passionate and knowledgeable about, that others ignore.

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        8. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          But I really want to point out that, while I was trans, I was a true-to-form TRA. I preached the Good Word of killing the "old self." And, in doing so, I went out searching fir "lost souls" in order to convert them. The relationships I made through that were so easily lost once

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        9. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          I changed my perspective on some things. Because those relationships were ultimately based only on being in an echo chamber. We all deserve healthy discourse, to be challenged in our views, and to be given the opportunity to question and possibly change what we believe.

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        10. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          My point is, I think "peaking" in intimate relationships can, at times, be a good and bonding thing. But we shouldn't make it our jobs, necessarily. I'm not at all saying "be quiet" about your beliefs, but learning to be okay with having people in your life who think differently

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        11. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          is imlortant for our own personal growth, even if those relationships fade because of a lack of shared passions.

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        12. Rachel 🦎‏ @HabituallyFemme Jul 2

          Anyway, I hope some of this has made sense. Sorry it was so long, I just wanted to shine a bit more light on where I'm coming from. ❤

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