Of course for a tiny minority of people, devoting their entire life to a family & home and none to work is absolutely right just as for a small minority of people, devoting their entire life to work and none to a family & home is absolutely right. https://twitter.com/Paul_Bergkamp/status/999158977199071233 …
I said it is for some. Just as devoting a life to work to the exclusion of family is for some. But most people need a bit of both. It's not that intellectual/professional/vocational aims are more real than family life or the other way round.
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Just that it is the rare person who is completely satisfied with just one or the other. The person who prioritises and most enjoys family life is still very likely to have some intellectual/professional/vocational needs as well.
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It isn’t at all rare to encounter women who—given the economic means—would choose to be stay at home moms. I’ve met many who made that choice and felt no burning need to fill out another quarterly sales report or draft another legal brief.
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This is what I mean. The options they see are not appealing. It is very unlikely they have no intellectual/vocational interests tho. It could be art or history or medicine or anything. I have no need to fill out sales reports or legal briefs. Most people don't.
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What I’m suggesting is that many find the job of raising children fully satisfying. No need for other work. A good book will suffice. And families are different. Raising one daughter who enjoys alone time is perhaps less... fully occupying than say, raising 4 boys. Just saying.
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And I am disagreeing. I think few people need no personal vocational goals. Yes, of course, having lots of children might mean that they are impossible but it doesn't make the need for them go away. Same with men who want wives & families but can't fit them in.
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You look at stay at home moms the way I look at vegetarians. You’re not judging them, but you can’t quite believe that someone would freely make that choice and be fulfilled. Like, no bacon ever? Yes John. They really don’t want bacon. Yes Helen, they don’t want another job.
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