But more seriously; I'm with Helen. I'm not seeing this offering anything new. Of course the culture is changing, quickly, because of the massive alteration in child-rearing. We've had half a century, maybe, to adjust to this; it's a sudden change to what we did for millennia.
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No good all this: But I was behaving this way. How could he not know that what I needed was for him to stop trying to fix the problem and just listen to it and give me a cuddle?
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Best advice I was ever given was when a (now ex) boyfriend was bothered by something, and one of our friends just turned to me and said "did you try asking what's wrong and how you can help?" - boom. Problem solved.
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It's amazing how much easier all my relationships - romantic/sexual, familial, platonic, even work ones - became once I made that approach universal. Comes back, again, to clarity and honesty of communication - with the iron-clad promise of zero judgement.
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