I know a lot of people are laughing at this and I see why. I don't think it's a terrible idea in itself but it won't work in the way she wants it to.https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/permission-nappy-change-consent-sexuality-expert-deanne-carson-a8345581.html …
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I think saying 'Shall we change your nappy?' is fine to let the child know their co-operation is wanted and give them the chance to give it (when old enough to understand,obv.' Problem is that most kids still in nappies when 'NO!' becomes their favourite word.
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Then the parent has to overrule them and say 'We need to change your nappy' and just do it. If this lady thinks kids will apply these early experiences to later life, this experience is likely to be 'The best thing to do is overrule 'no' and do it anyway.' Of course, this is nuts
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Kids don't learn it's ok to overrule people & take their pants off coz their parents compelled them to have their nappy changed. They learn that parents can overrule very young children in this way for a good reason but adults' wishes must be sought and respected coz autonomy.
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So, she either thinks parents should ask consent and then respect 'no' in which case their kids will probably get very sick, die or be taken away or she just hasn't thought this through and recognised that 'no' often has to be overruled in very young children.
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sounds like a British baby to me. American babies are issued guns at birth, so we can't tell em anything.
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"Edwin, will you consent to go to bed?" "Will you consent to eat your peas?" "will you please consent to silence we had 5 neighbours calling."
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