I mean the way it is used in feminism to argue that women do most of it and this is a serious inequality which needs to be addressed. It's essentially a whine about something subjective and so difficult to argue with. But the conversation largely moved on from this.https://twitter.com/allycinnamon76/status/993510314023976960 …
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If that is how your relationship works, that's great. I wouldn't knock it. But if one partner is regularly objecting to this or failing to live up to your expectations with regards to it (and, let's face it, it is more often men accused of this), you'll need to work something out
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And that something isn't automatically that s/he must immediately start doing your preferred degree of 'emotional labour'. In same way, the partner with the higher sex drive doesn't get to give specs to the one with the lower sex drive (which, let's face it is more often women).
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Maybe you're incompatible and will have to accept this but maybe you accept that you are different and find a compromise which works for both of you, rather than making a political issue out of that difference.
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