It's quite possible to be sympathetic to a grieving man and angry with a callous one who abandons his partner. It makes no sense to pick a side on this because men are individuals.
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This is true. And I’m sure men do mourn the loss of their unborn kids. That said, I used to volunteer with pregnant teens & about 1/2 my friends have had abortions. I’ve yet to see a single man upset by his girlfriend aborting a baby. Maybe these men exist. I’ve never seen one.
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Well, if they don't exist, no need to worry about them. They do tho. Someone I love dearly grieves the loss of his potential daughter, remembers her birthday and how old she would be even tho she would be 16 now.
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I just think that if a man wants a say, he should marry the woman. Make a commitment.
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That wouldn't give him a say and it shouldn't. She must still have the same right to make the decision.
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True. I just mean that in order for me to feel like a man should even be allowed to have feelings (if that makes sense) he should be committed to caring for the child for the duration of that child’s life.
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Yes, of course. Although, of course, people do still have feelings. Plenty of women who couldn't bear to have abortions who then go for adoption or are terrible mothers.
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Great conversation Helen
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