People often imagine that when society was strongly Christian in premodern times, people were more spiritual and focused on virtue. This is almost certainly a misconception brought about by it being largely religious texts which have survived.
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There seems to have been a strange thing in the late medieval period (possibly earlier too but this is my area) where it was not understood that women can get lonely & like to talk to other women. Many sermons telling them to stop going to each others houses all the time.
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Telling them to stay in and do their work and wait for their husbands. Much suspicion of women who just went to other women's houses for a cup of tea (OK, tea wasn;t a thing but you know what I mean) Seen as dereliction of duty & gossiping (which was bad esp if abt husbands)
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The church was a way women authorised getting together & having a chat. Records showing charges laid against parishioners & punished with fines include a lot of women being charged with talking through sermons, almost no men. Men more likely to be charged with not going to church
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Men, who more often worked outside the house, usually had plenty of male company. They could go to taverns too. Women needed to find ways to get together without being accused of neglecting their work, being frivolous, flighty or gossiping, Church was the acceptable way.
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And so, there are records of so many, seemingly quite unnecessary meetings of women at the church to discuss things like making a new scarf for the statue of Mary and then getting together to do it. Very slowly, I suspect.
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For elderly women in rural areas, it still very much is a social life. The social aspect is quite possibly what's keeping the Church from total collapse in much of the country.
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My great-grandmother was not Christian. She attended the church in her village because it was a social occasion.
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