Well, no. Then you'd have to keep getting married and divorced unless you only wanted to have sex with one person for your entire life. I think most women would prefer unwanted advances that having that expectation on them. You know, because of the wanted ones. https://twitter.com/YeyoZa/status/953266858337144832 …
But then we might disagree on what criteria that choice should be made. I found the 'lunch' parallel interesting because I notice no-one wants to change norms of society so women don't have to feel awkward saying 'no' to that.