Well, no. Then you'd have to keep getting married and divorced unless you only wanted to have sex with one person for your entire life. I think most women would prefer unwanted advances that having that expectation on them. You know, because of the wanted ones. https://twitter.com/YeyoZa/status/953266858337144832 …
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This sounds more like a certain take on social networking. Which is fine if she's weighed up pros & cons & decided. However, I'm sure there are girls she doesn't have lunch with and men she doesn't have sex with. It will just be those she wants connections with.
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And it's a bit presumptuous to think the sex obligation needs fixing by restoring norms of no premarital sex if she sees it as the same as a boring lunch. No suggestion of setting up norms of no lunch to save her from making that decision to avoid awkwardness.
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Whilst it is probably true that premarital sex becoming unexceptional leads to women who don't want to have it finding themselves asked to explain it more than when it was assumed good girls didn't, the solution is not to return to this understanding of morality.
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Women do have agency. They can explain things. Or decline to explain things and just state wishes. If this means that they lose a connection, it probably wasn't worth keeping. If they think sex is a fair enough price to pay for keeping it, they can decide that too.
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Yes, it's not happening tho. Studies show time and time again that women offered casual sex nearly always says no whilst men usually say yes. Men know this. They don't just walk up to women and ask them for sex. They know there are rules to follow.
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It's not the norm, but so many women making the same complaints seem to indicate it's common enough to be a problem. It would be interesting to see if it was as much of a problem when the norm wasn't to have premarital sex. There were different problems then of course.
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Didn't read her article as advocating no sex before marriage anyway? Not sure what's going on
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This has got to be parody...right?
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