It is not weird or unsexy to be asked if this is what we want, and frankly very sexy to be asked what we want a man to do to us and where we want to be touched. Asking for consent is sexy.
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I think there could be ways to minimise the intrusiveness of consent-asking and prevent it from ruining the moment but if both people are clearly having the moment, being formulaic about it could be a problem.
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Being genuinely interested in knowing whether the other person is all in would decrease the likelihood of misunderstanding.
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Sure, it's balancing that with maintaining the heat. Obviously, if someone looks like they might not be, its important to check but if they clearly are, frequently checking they're sure they want to proceed is likely to chill romance.
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I think this is something a mature and self-assured person could manage with panache but all too often, advocates of asking consent at each stage lack nuance & you end up with the impression of a legal formula or even worse, the need to check women know what they're doing.
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