It is not weird or unsexy to be asked if this is what we want, and frankly very sexy to be asked what we want a man to do to us and where we want to be touched. Asking for consent is sexy.
Sure, it's balancing that with maintaining the heat. Obviously, if someone looks like they might not be, its important to check but if they clearly are, frequently checking they're sure they want to proceed is likely to chill romance.
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I think this is something a mature and self-assured person could manage with panache but all too often, advocates of asking consent at each stage lack nuance & you end up with the impression of a legal formula or even worse, the need to check women know what they're doing.
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