Because of the divergence of regret. There's sth deeply sad (not pathetic) in offering sex for love, more so than in offering sex for money.
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But this isn't a female thing. It's men who are more needy in this regard. Women are usually more choosy & happier to stay single.
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Women regret casual sex more. And sex and romance appear to be more strongly intertwined, for them. Needy = sex drive?
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I doubt this, tbh. I think women more often need there to be a romantic/love connection before sex but it's men who have trouble separating.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @amyalkon and
Does this explain "he doesn't call", "I feel used", etc.?
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Yes. She thought there was an emotional connection. Doesn't happen if it was clear this was casual sex. Then she'd probably have declined.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @Sevens_2 and
When I was only interested in casual sex,I wld say this clearly -Do you want to spend the night with me but then never see each other again
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Replying to @HPluckrose @Sevens_2 and
Men would usually say 'yes.' Women will usually say 'no' & may even feel insulted by the question. Because we are more choosy.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @Sevens_2 and
But there's a difference between needing an emotional connection before being in the mood for sex & confusing love & sex.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @amyalkon and
There is. And I hold that women need/do both more. I wouldn't call it love though, but romantic attachment. (Love is more profound.)
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Well, I have said why I think the boundary between love/affection/romance/friendship is less well-defined in men than it is in women.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @Sevens_2 and
And I'm aware we may be coming at the same thing from different angles.
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