Before accusing someone of being butthurt, crying or whining over an issue, check they're not actually making a reasonable ethical objection
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You really mean 'I don't think you should have a problem with this' & to make that point you'll need to engage with why they do have one.
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Ppl can say someone complaining abt something is upset to dismiss it (you're just butthurt) or validate it (look, this hurts ppl)
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So it's a crap measure of the validity of the criticism being made. It only measures how much sympathy you have or don't have. Tell me why.
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Also, accusing people of being defensive doesn't work if you are actually attacking them.
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