In any case, this is grounds for asking for civil disagreement & going away if people choose not to engage.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @HazooClove and
Not telling men not to disagree with women for 24 hours even if they're really wrong & reflect on why they want to do that.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @galinja and
Hazoo Clove Retweeted Matthew Chapman
Here is one example. I didn't call you names. "Think about why you need to engage every time" is good advice.https://twitter.com/fawfulfan/status/907176550478618624 …
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Replying to @HazooClove @galinja and
But not a gendered one. Incredibly condescending & u'd see it if it was 'Women, think about why you disagree with men.Try not to for a bit.'
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Replying to @HPluckrose @galinja and
I have actually been told that. "Maybe you should go think about why you can't get along" with a group of men who talked over me constantly.
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Replying to @HazooClove @galinja and
I have no idea who was in the right there. If you saw it one way & everyone else another, perhaps you did need to think about this.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @galinja and
I was reading straight from the text they were arguing about. THEY couldn't even agree, but I had the rules right in front of my face.
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Replying to @HazooClove @galinja and
Obviously, I cannot judge. It's possible for one person to be right & everyone else in the room to be wrong.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @HazooClove and
But it's also very common for people to think this is the case & for feminists to read assertive disagreement as sexism.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @galinja and
Not as common as it seems, but it happens. More common for people to get defensive & think of arguments, instead of what is being said.
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Yes. I can't know if in that situation, it was you doing that or all the men.
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