Eh, selfishness isn't a specific unvarying list of actions, it's an attitude that says "my needs are more important and yours don't count."
Yes, exactly. I can't make him be OK with what I want but neither can I accept limitations on where I can go & what I can do.
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But this is why I married him when I assumed I never would get married. Because he is absolutely fine with me doing my own thing.
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He appreciates that too. And I have met many other people who have relationships like this. They do their own thing & rout for each other.
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Then if you would rather preserve your autonomy at all costs, then that is the right choice for you.
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And help him to fulfil his too. That is also essential. Mutual empowerment. Partnership.
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This the subtle difference between compromise & co-operation and between mutually supportive roles & mutual empowerment, I'm talking about.
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