Cancer, stroke, etc that may make it difficult to impossible for you (generic) to do some of your dreams b/c they need care,support, etc
Or consider him selfish if he did go off for a year leaving me to keep the house going on my own. Its a matter of understanding.
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If you said (as my friend did to her husband) I'm doing this whether or not you have pblms w/ it and you get no say, that wd be selfish
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That is not co-operation. If she wanted to travel alone whilst taking care of their shared responsibilities & he wanted didn't want her to..
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...this would indicate the need for a conversation about whether they want the same thing from marriage and what the differences are.
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I would add, and is there a way they can compromise and both live with
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They could decide to do that, yes. I would rather put the relationship on a more casual footing to enable me to continue doing my own thing.
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Or ways might simply diverge. If Dave wanted to live permanently in another country & I didn't, we couldn't really compromise on this.
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We might decide to have a long distance relationship or break up and remain friends.
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That sounds good and workable in theory. The way I've seen it work out ... not necessarily so much
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