Not least b/c he may need to be my support team and provide supply drops :D
We might just disagree on what is selfish and what ppl have a right to expect from each other in marriage & that needs to be sorted out b4.
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Eh, selfishness isn't a specific unvarying list of actions, it's an attitude that says "my needs are more important and yours don't count."
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Yes, exactly. Its not part of the co-operation & mutual empowerment I am advocating.
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But this doesn't mean it doesn't seem selfish to others. Many wld call me selfish for going to uni & Dave doing all earning & more childcare
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Or consider him selfish if he did go off for a year leaving me to keep the house going on my own. Its a matter of understanding.
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If you said (as my friend did to her husband) I'm doing this whether or not you have pblms w/ it and you get no say, that wd be selfish
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That is not co-operation. If she wanted to travel alone whilst taking care of their shared responsibilities & he wanted didn't want her to..
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...this would indicate the need for a conversation about whether they want the same thing from marriage and what the differences are.
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I would add, and is there a way they can compromise and both live with
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