Can't find the thread, so I'm going to say this here : one of my bucket lists is to do solo long distance thru-hike
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Okay, last word on this now tat I think I figured out a little better what I was trying to get at :
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There's each of you having your own thing in marriage and I actually think that's good and necessary
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Then theres selfishly insistg on ur own way no matter what & refusg 2 care abt/respect yr partners needs & wishes b/c that wd cramp ur style
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We might just disagree on what is selfish and what ppl have a right to expect from each other in marriage & that needs to be sorted out b4.
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Eh, selfishness isn't a specific unvarying list of actions, it's an attitude that says "my needs are more important and yours don't count."
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Yes, exactly. Its not part of the co-operation & mutual empowerment I am advocating.
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But this doesn't mean it doesn't seem selfish to others. Many wld call me selfish for going to uni & Dave doing all earning & more childcare
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Or consider him selfish if he did go off for a year leaving me to keep the house going on my own. Its a matter of understanding.
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