Thing is, "doing your own thing" can be tremendously destructive if u don't realize compromise *must* be involved. Seen this w/ friends --
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
Had 1 friend who wd not compromise at.all. & wd, say,take off to South America for 6 months w/o consulting husband
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
Not surprisingly, they ended up divorced. Not too many ppl will put up with stuff like that ...
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
And at some point you need to sit and think about whether your expectations are realistic
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
She got smarter in her second marriage and settled down a lot.
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Do you think it's a moral necessity to stop doing your own thing when married or can two ppl who want to do this be happy?
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Replying to @HPluckrose @debeehr
I'd rather be single than in a marriage than made taking off for 6 months on my own a no-no BUT...
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There is discussing with your partner before hand, making sure s/he is okay with this, being sure responsibilities are covered etc.,
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
And then there is coming home and saying, "I'm going away for six months, see ya!" Guess which one she did.
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That's not co-operation, is it?
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