Yes, exactly this. Doing your own thing, being your own person and doing it alongside someone whose doing the same whilst routing for you. https://twitter.com/VieKeng/status/904330045191319553 …
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Replying to @HPluckrose
Thing is, "doing your own thing" can be tremendously destructive if u don't realize compromise *must* be involved. Seen this w/ friends --
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
Had 1 friend who wd not compromise at.all. & wd, say,take off to South America for 6 months w/o consulting husband
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
Not surprisingly, they ended up divorced. Not too many ppl will put up with stuff like that ...
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
And at some point you need to sit and think about whether your expectations are realistic
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Replying to @debeehr @HPluckrose
She got smarter in her second marriage and settled down a lot.
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Do you think it's a moral necessity to stop doing your own thing when married or can two ppl who want to do this be happy?
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Replying to @HPluckrose
Depends on what "your own thing" is. Marriage also tends to involve commitments other than kids, like mortgages, pets, etc
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Yes. If he did want to go off for a year, I'd need to work out how to manage the bills & fit in all animal care. I'd do my best tho.
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