No-one had a problem with me advising my daughter on safety because it was clear I did so coz I had her best interests at heart.
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And not because I wanted to blame her for anything or reduce the responsibilty of rapists not to attack her.
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But authorities & male individuals are automatically suspect because of the perception of a systemic sexism, rape culture & victim blaming.
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It isn't the advice itself that is suspect but motivations for giving it but unfortunately this can lead to it not being given. Unhelpful.
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We can't advise people to restrict their liberties in order not to fall victims of ill-mannered people
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Assertiveness training & self-defence classes don't restrict ppl's liberties. They safeguard them. And we can advise. We just can't force.
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Some ask women to wear headscarves to cover their body and wear full veils
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Modesty codes are shit & I counter them. Why should this prevent women from receiving advice on crime prevention. Nothing to do with dress.
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Some seem to get confused that advice like "keep an eye on your drink" and "don't dress like that" are not the same thing. 1 good, 1 bad.
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I would talk about it in public as a general discussion, and in private only under some circumstances (not as a response to an event)
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