And can you actually do that? You could commit to not connecting various body-parts with other ppl but not connecting emotionally?
Yes, these are the practicalities. I'm thinking more of the emotions of people who consider themselves in a primary relationship
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right. emotions absolutely have to be taken into account, in concrete cases and also for the general pattern
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e.g. "how can we avoid that you develop negative feelings towards people i spend time with"
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And sometimes the answer might be that you can't and a different kind of relationship is needed.
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yes sometimes and sometimes all that's needed is more clarity and subtle changes to behaviors & agreements
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