OK, OK, I suppose what Im asking is 'Is it OK for your partner to have a 'soul-mate' of same sex as you who isn't you?'
And can you actually do that? You could commit to not connecting various body-parts with other ppl but not connecting emotionally?
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i think it's not healthy to agree to constraints on emotional connection to other human beings
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And would the relationship survive & flourish? If your partner's soul-mate was someone else and not you?
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i don't see why it wouldn't?
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I think it might undermine the sense of partnership.
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how so? what would be taken away? only the "specialness" or more?
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Well, what makes a romantic partnership a partnership? If not a commitment to put each other first emotionally? Primary emotional connection
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i think that can be a good question to ask & discuss, but it's not my place to assume that my answer would work for you
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It probably wouldn't. That's why I am trying to get a range of opinions.
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This is one of those things where the couple makes their own rules. It's a fine line. And the line shifts, depending on the person.
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Relationships mean different things to different people. Expectations vary. Therefore one cannot state with certainty what is and isn't ok.
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That;s why Im trying to get a range of perspectives.
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Ah, well...I shared that too
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