This is my point too. Can you really be shamed by things you're not already a little ashamed of? Don't have some cognitive dissonance about? https://twitter.com/DurinnMcfurren/status/822903164861120513 …
Yes, fear of punitive consequences is easily understood. Trying to separate this from fear of disapproval.
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Of course. In reality, often impossible. But I think we can think abt what it is we're actually afraid of & that's important.
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If I'm afraid of not getting a job, that's realistic. Says nothing abt my certainty of my own motivations & justification.
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If I'm afraid of people thinking badly of me, why am I? Have I internalised it or am I actually doubting myself 4 good reason
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Hmm. If ppl think it makes you a bad person? I don't care if ppl think my emotions re pregnancy are bad but I'm not everyone
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Which is important but not really what I'm thinking about now. More about psychology & role of cognitive dissonance.
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