This is my point too. Can you really be shamed by things you're not already a little ashamed of? Don't have some cognitive dissonance about? https://twitter.com/DurinnMcfurren/status/822903164861120513 …
.@DurinnMcfurren I can see being hurt by people perceiving you as a bad person for being opposed to something you think needs opposing.
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It might not just be shame. One could realize that being perceived as a racist, sexist etc. might have negative
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effect on their life, that of their families. This might also have a silencing effect.
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Yes, I covered this first before going to separate out the psychological stuff.
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Oh. Sorry.
didn't see this yet. 
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Was trying to work out how much we actually fear disapproval vs real-life consequences of disapproval.
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Interesting. I have a chapter in a book about group behaviour "need to belong" & "social rejection" but in Dutch
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Social rejection is a powerful phenomenon Even more depending on the social identity of the group we "belong" to
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when a group excludes us our brain registers this in the same place as it would for physical pain.
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