but isn't that the reason why it's particularly hurtful? @micvicster
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Replying to @egonotis @micvicster
Yes! So stop perpetuating it. Women feeling alienated by shirts with semi-clad cartoon women on, ffs!
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Replying to @HPluckrose
I agree, but how can u impart a sense of why it's so hurtful w/out seeming to be buying into "honour in chastity"
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Replying to @egonotis @micvicster
Carefully! I don't know the answer. Chicken and egg. Perhaps focus more on not making sexual slurs at anyone.
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Replying to @HPluckrose
y not say u don't see any justification for considering it so hurtful. That it is an absurd word to use as insult?
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Replying to @egonotis @micvicster
I don't in an abstract, intellectual sense but do have to accept the reality of cultural norms. 'Shld be' vs 'is'
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Replying to @HPluckrose
the cultural norm is what you don't want to perpetuate though
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Replying to @egonotis @micvicster
Yes, but it does exist. I agree that refusing to be upset by it wld be best way forward but in reality ppl still are.
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Replying to @HPluckrose @micvicster
So need a way forward which acknowledges reality as it is at the same time as trying to make it better.
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Replying to @HPluckrose
yes. To me it seems best to tell them u see no reason for it to be so hurtful however many people do
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Yes! Find a balance - will vary in each situation.
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