Definitely not something only men do to undermine women's confidence in dating context. Both my 'neggers' have no interest in dating women.https://twitter.com/HPluckrose/status/794510884613844992 …
I think insecure people can make excuses for it - just tactless, didn't mean anything by it, just honest
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But they're fooling no one. Eg, one of the neggers in my life, there's actually an internet chat group devoted to
Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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comparing instances, where people compete to offer the best ones! It's bonkers!
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Completely different mentality, isn't it?
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Yes. It's a crap mentality, frankly. Either be nice to people cos you like them, or avoid cos you don't. So easy!
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Niceness doesn't always get you through the door, especially among the more shallow younger social circles
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But then you'll end up with someone shallow who doesn't value kindness and honesty. Or...1/2
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Truth is, I once pondered on the necessity of games, deceptions & tricks people have to employ in a r'ship 1/2
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I don't think we do have to. Its excusable perhaps in the immature but not deliberate negging.
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I used to do a lot of what I now learn is called 'shit testing' but when I realised it hurt men, I stopped.
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I agree to this, the insecurity bit. But it's a flawed crutch, like most dating techniques, works for some.
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Short-term dating techniques presumably. It can't possibly work for healthy long-term relationships.
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Totally agree to this. How do u compare this with peeps who say nice things they don't mean & use & dump others
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A different form of manipulation, equally reprehensible.
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