I do think there are significant differences between the consequences of deciding whether to have a child & deciding whether to pay for it.
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I don't think its irrational to factor in the emotional &psychological wellbeing of everyone concerned as well as the financial implications
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My concern for men re: unfair custody rights is largely for their emotional wellbeing. Same is true for women re: abortion decisions.
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We disagree on this subject but I have to salute your open-mindedness, yet again. I don't know why I mention it: it's a given.
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Do we disagree? Tell me why tomorrow. Sick of subject. I don't know what the right answer is but I suspect it won't be facile.
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It's not a straightforward ethical case. It fact, it's the most difficult one I've faced, I think.
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Yes. "Abort coz I want that or I'm free of all responsibility' is unfair.But so is "I want this,u don't. Tough.Pay half forever"
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You could prob work out a fair 'compensation' which wld allow men to take some responsibility & help but not be bound forever.
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You also have to take the well-being of the child into consideration. It's a tough one.
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How's this for 'fair': if you demand the sole right to make a decision, you accept sole responsibility for that decision.
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