And we don't actually have to accept other people's feelings & experiences uncritically. We don't have to find them valid.https://twitter.com/melina_bea/status/784327110265483264 …
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Replying to @HPluckrose
In a way. Believe feelings valid to extent that they are being felt. Actions due to those feelings not necessarily.
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Replying to @melina_bea
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@melina_bea I don't think ppl mean others claim them not to have the feelings but that they claim them to be baseless by 'invalidate.'3 replies 0 retweets 0 likes -
Replying to @HPluckrose
Would like to know source of your initial tweet, as I may be splitting hairs over nothing!
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Replying to @melina_bea
What was the original one? Too many quote tweets to follow now & I've been looking at it from different angles for coupla days.
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Replying to @HPluckrose
Melina Retweeted Helen Pluckrose
This is the first one I saw:https://twitter.com/hpluckrose/status/784099580388540416 …
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Replying to @melina_bea
Examples I'd given were woman being invalidated by partner calling her sensitive & annoying, Xtian by same sex marriage & 1/2
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Replying to @HPluckrose
Only the first one might come close to my definition of invalidating. The others seem to be misusing/misdirecting.
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Replying to @melina_bea
But there are people who are over-sensitive & annoying.There must be a way for a partner to address this problem in relationship
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Replying to @HPluckrose @melina_bea
We cannot know in this case whether woman's partner said this to dismiss legitimate feelings caused by his mistreatment or 1/2
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she's the kind of person who will cry & yell for days that he doesn't love her because he didn't notice &compliment a new outfit
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