And we don't actually have to accept other people's feelings & experiences uncritically. We don't have to find them valid.https://twitter.com/melina_bea/status/784327110265483264 …
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Replying to @HPluckrose
What I mean is, can't tell someone "you can't feel that way" because they cant help it. To that extent they're valid. No further
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@melina_bea Yes, the feelings need dealing with but not necessarily by everyone else. Foremost responsibility belongs to feeler of them.1 reply 0 retweets 1 like -
Replying to @HPluckrose
Exactly! Hence my thought of not enough validation in childhood. Validation by parent helps person learn to deal with feelings >
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Replying to @melina_bea @HPluckrose
rather than put responsibility on others. Special snowflakes seem insecure to me more than anything else.
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There's a general sense that feelings shld never be hurt. Whether this is coz feelings neglected or coddled cld be a factor.
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