"It's not hatred that's important, it's the desire to annihilate." This is a surprisingly good distinction.https://youtu.be/RxERE27-DA4?t=53 …
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I was reading
@Meaningness's work on hunting the shadow earlier and this bit struck me.pic.twitter.com/9QbtIGGx5w
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One of the interesting things about experiencing loathing towards someone like this is that there's no feeling that there's a shadow there. There are people that rub you wrong, these are people who you will probably learn something about yourself by understanding that reaction.
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And then there are people who your reaction is just a profound sense of "It is bad that this world has you in it" and... it's not that they definitely don't contain any elements of your shadow, but that feeling is probably not pointing towards it.
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I think this distinction is quite tricky to navigate. It's tempting and easy to fan the flames of hatred and allow yourself to loathe people who are probably basically fine by focusing on their worst traits.
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But as with all emotions, repudiating the emotion in its entirety cuts you off from important and useful ways of being, and sometimes when you encounter someone or something truly loathsome, it's worth acknowledging to yourself that it is genuinely bad that they exist.
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(You probably shouldn't act on that feeling too thoroughly though. The police frown on that)
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Wow, I think I rarely experience hatred without a lot of work. If I viscerally dislike something, I want that to be the universal reaction (which is definitely in my shadow).
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