I kind of want to thread about the subjective experience of feeling not at all attractive for most of my life and having that completely turned on it’s head in my 30s and I don’t know how to talk about this without sounding braggy and cringe but it’s a very weird experience 
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Aw, thanks.
I'm not actually short of romantic partners. Desire to think of myself as attractive is more a self-image thing than because I need to attract new people.
I mean I'm not saying I'd turn down the opportunity to fight off cute girls (or boys) with a stick, especially because I'm not that good at stick fighting, but it's not a priority, especially when there's a pandemic on.
