Talked to a friend yesterday; she mentioned going through porn videos and erotica that she likes with her partner, picking out the sections she loves, sharing with him what she likes about them I want to read stuff like this -- people gushing about their favourite porn at length
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Yeah, although for a lot of people* this is utterly terrifying to do, so requires somewhat careful handling. Telling someone your fantasies is in many ways way more emotionally intimate than actual sex. * e.g. me, though less so than it used to be.
