Talked to a friend yesterday; she mentioned going through porn videos and erotica that she likes with her partner, picking out the sections she loves, sharing with him what she likes about them I want to read stuff like this -- people gushing about their favourite porn at length
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Alt: tell your partner about the fantasies you have when you masturbate, and figure out together all the psychological/emotional/social/sexual parts that do it for you :)
Yeah, although for a lot of people* this is utterly terrifying to do, so requires somewhat careful handling. Telling someone your fantasies is in many ways way more emotionally intimate than actual sex. * e.g. me, though less so than it used to be.
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(I mean it's great, don't get me wrong, but it's also incredibly scary)
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Totally
Took me two relationships before I was finally able to *kind of* do this in my third, and I still have a ways to go
Have recently been in a safe environment for expressing them to people tho, and that's been helping me feel more confident in them surprisingly quickly! -
Yeah. I'm able to do it in my current relationship, which is great, but it's taken us most of two years to get to the point where it's viable. Partly because it 100% would not have been safe in my last relationship, which made me a bit gunshy.
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