Reading him is a net positive if you're able to cleanly separate the good bits from the bad bits, but he isn't going to do that for you (because he can't), and I'd rather people not take on either than take on both.
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I am exactly this over-explainer too, you’re not alone the more words I say the safer I feel
Yeah. I've historically done the same. I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with this, but a lot of how it manifests in the SSC case gets my back up. As a side note, I came to the conclusion that this was a Fawn reaction (in the cPTSD sense) when I do it.
