If I ever come across as belittling and mocking of core traumas and fears you vulnerably express and reveal, it's probably because I find it ridiculous that things others did to you could damage your core worth in ANY way. Lmao you're whole and entirely lovable 
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The useful attitude is neither arguing nor acceptance but more like... a gentle open-minded curiousity. "If this thing you feel is true, it is the right thing to feel. If it is not, it's still OK that you feel it. Shall we figure out what's going on?"
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Well maybe not *right* thing to feel. But the point is that the emotion is pointing at something and we should look at where it's pointing and assume that there is a reason underlying it that we should discover and maybe act on.
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