GeniesLoki

I've never faked an orgasm and I kinda fail to understand why anyone would. You're missing out on honest communication that'll guarantee better orgasms more often. Is this just my committed relationship mode brain assuming too many things? Someone explain me the fake O mindset

Because orgasming is hard for some of us and people can get *super* weird and needy about the fact that you've not had one, take it as a judgement upon them / sign that you're not into them / etc. (I've never faked, but I can definitely see the appeal)

i think i'm on the "gets super weird if partner does not cum" camp, i don't get it

Hmm, for me it's a combination of: 1) It's genuinely quite hard for me to achieve orgasm in company because it requires a sort of mental/physical alignment that the presence of others gets in the way of. 2) Sex is great and orgasms are mostly only OK so I don't prioritise it.