GeniesLoki

They are recent cultural constructs associated with trauma patterns and with diverse forms of ubiquitous clandestine abuse, vicious cycles created by patriarchy, war and slavery and driven underground by Modernism.

Almost all male feminists are faking, but women can easily tell the difference between the real ones and the fakes, and while asperger's (actually an Anti-Semetic term, @s_r_constantin needs redefining) makes one bad at dating it makes one good at learning.

And real male feminists are actually fantastically appealing to women, just like real gamer girls are fantastically appealing to gamer boys. But the on-ramp for feminism is a lot harder than that for gaming. It's a type of philosophy. @jessi_cata any advice on where to start?

One way to think about this is that a real feminist does not embrace a 'feminism' which invalidates his own 'lived experience', or which 'silences' him with regard to his own sexual and emotional desires.

As someone who is probably closest to being a central example of the type you're describing as a real male feminist, this seems like a curious definition in that it requires one to actively break new theoretical ground against the active opposition of most feminists.

Like I don't think most women feminists count as real feminists by this definition either.

Sure, but until not too long ago, no women were feminists. Do you imagine that when social pressure arises to adopt an identity the majority of the adherents of that identity are sincere and we'll informed about any accompanying ideology?