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Seems to me like trying to dance when you can't hear the music
Not really, because you can define intermediate goals that are more accessible. e.g. comfort in my own body will make me more attractive. Dressing well (in particular ways) will make me more attractive. Figuring out what to do with my hair will make me more attractive.
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All of those are things I can just straightforwardly do without worrying too much about whether they're "working" for the end goal.
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It's hard for me to go too deep into this metaphor as I don't know anything about dancing :P But I'd assume that small incremental changes that are definitely in the right direction are possible in both, but with no coherent vision of the larger goal there's a limit
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